Forgiveness does not establish a relationship!

So many of us are trapped in our inability to forgive. So many lack the understanding that forgiveness is not for the other person but for ourselves. Without it, we limit our freedom and choke in our unhappiness. You can not be free if you do not forgive. Plain and simple! You remain stuck, drowning in a pool of your past. If you are unwilling to forgive you are destroying your joy and the ability to love fully and openly. Forgiveness does not require you to forget or to pretend that a situation did not happen. Nor does forgiveness establish a relationship. It simply sets you free.  

Many times I have been asked, "how do I forgive". The answer is typically not accepted- initially. It sounds too simple and most of us look for something to have several loops and complicated turns in order for it to sound good. The truth of the matter is that most of our problems have simple solutions. And most solutions begin with a decision, then a change in our thought process.

If you are stuck in a pool of your past, choking in unhappiness and feel the need to set yourself free-if you are ready for a change, I can help you-One Word at a Time.

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I am perfectly imperfect!
I love this saying as it describes us all in different ways. The search for perfection (whatever that means) has ruined dreams, self esteems, relationships, etc... What is ugly to one is beautiful to another. What is slightly irregular can be seen as a work of art or a disaster-pending your views. The feeling of not being good enough as a result of their baggage, defense wall or just plain insecurities lies to our better sense of self (as we all have weak moments). However weak moments do not make us weak. In a season of trials and tribulations when the world appears to be against us, we can stand and declare that we are PERFECTLY IMPERFECT! The storm will pass and should we stand on the notion that perfection can be whatever we declare it to be, we will find that being imperfect can be perfect!  

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One word at time...

Allow the healing to continue... its a process. Its with a thought, a word, a decision. Someone said to me today that when she found herself to be in a difficult situation recently she said to herself, "this is not my life anymore", and at that point made the decision to move forward. Her words gave her the strength to move on and not look back as she had so much to look forward to.

How often do we allow ourselves the right to speak life to our situation(s)? We get caught in the past and drag it into our present. We commonly do so unconsciously. We revert to "what we know". Unfortunately too often that is not what is in our best interest. Communication, using our words to express our hurt and pain, is too often ignored. Instead we hide behind the shadows and allow life to continue, not realizing that doing so stops our growth. And although we may not realize the process, it will eventually surface in ways that will only hurt us, and the relationships we are in.

Make a pact today-allow yourself to heal, one word at a time...     

Healing Wounds One Word at a Time..

Life can be overwhelming at times. Making decisions, dealing with children/family members, finances, the past, planning for the future, it all affects who we are. Every single thought that we have offers consequences (good or bad). The power of our words can bring life or death to a situation. I believe that I can help heal wounds, one word at a time.

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