So many of us are trapped in our inability to forgive. So many lack the understanding that forgiveness is not for the other person but for ourselves. Without it, we limit our freedom and choke in our unhappiness. You can not be free if you do not forgive. Plain and simple! You remain stuck, drowning in a pool of your past. If you are unwilling to forgive you are destroying your joy and the ability to love fully and openly. Forgiveness does not require you to forget or to pretend that a situation did not happen. Nor does forgiveness establish a relationship. It simply sets you free.
Many times I have been asked, "how do I forgive". The answer is typically not accepted- initially. It sounds too simple and most of us look for something to have several loops and complicated turns in order for it to sound good. The truth of the matter is that most of our problems have simple solutions. And most solutions begin with a decision, then a change in our thought process.
If you are stuck in a pool of your past, choking in unhappiness and feel the need to set yourself free-if you are ready for a change, I can help you-One Word at a Time.
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Luv it!. I've noticed that often I can forgive quite easily. Through the years I have even thought to a fault. Im not quite sure why, but let me reflect. I think it's because I see people as imperfect, learning beings, also I like to think that we all have some good in our core selves. In addition harboring hatred or negative feelings about anything is only doing damage to my self. SO, I think that it starts with feeling love within myself that I can forgive.
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