Monday, July 23, 2012

One word at time...

Allow the healing to continue... its a process. Its with a thought, a word, a decision. Someone said to me today that when she found herself to be in a difficult situation recently she said to herself, "this is not my life anymore", and at that point made the decision to move forward. Her words gave her the strength to move on and not look back as she had so much to look forward to.

How often do we allow ourselves the right to speak life to our situation(s)? We get caught in the past and drag it into our present. We commonly do so unconsciously. We revert to "what we know". Unfortunately too often that is not what is in our best interest. Communication, using our words to express our hurt and pain, is too often ignored. Instead we hide behind the shadows and allow life to continue, not realizing that doing so stops our growth. And although we may not realize the process, it will eventually surface in ways that will only hurt us, and the relationships we are in.

Make a pact today-allow yourself to heal, one word at a time...     

8 comments:

  1. I look forward to your words of wisdom. good luck.

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  2. AWESOME! You always have the right words to say. You're a natural writer. A blog is perfect for you. Can't wait to see what you create. ;>

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  3. Hi , I am from Dominican Republic, I found your blog through a very good friend, so this is my first visit. You’re doing a great job! Congratulations!!


    I completely agree with you !

    You can’t drive forward on the road of life if you’re looking in the rear view mirror. None of us can change our yesterdays, but all of us can change our tomorrows.


    I will be visiting often. :o)

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  4. There is a saying in Spanish that basically translates into always step forward never backwards not even to give yourself impulse. Looking forward to what can be with great expectation is one of the things that keeps me sane. I hope you can all do so as well.

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